Types Of Swingers 

While there are many levels of swinger involvement, swingers almost always fall into two broad groups, Soft-Swing and Full-Swap. There are some variations for taste so understanding the differences between these is important .

SOFT SWING: Usually a couple’s first step toward the lifestyle. As Soft swingers fall into three different categories, listening,  is so important when hooking up with a new couple for the first time. The three sub-groups play differently and when combined make up about 75% of the lifestyle’s patrons: 

 

1. SAME ROOM – Same room soft swingers often committed couples who get aroused by the mere presence of another set of eyes… watching and being watched heightens their erotic pleasure which leads to much more explosive orgasms.  
 
They, for the most part only, may only play sexually with their own spouse. Even hardcore swingers (detailed below) usually start out in some sort of mild same-room scenario, and may even spend years in this category before exploring further.

2. GIRL-GIRL ONLY – Two or more women playing in hot girl-girl action (just like the movies, and exactly like your fantasies), while their husbands either watch from the sidelines or participate only with their own wives. Bisexual women/bi-curious women and voyeuristic men will often find this type of play incredibly erotic.

3. SOFTCORE WIFE-SWAPPING – Some will want to switch sexual partners and play the day away, but without sexual intercourse. Activities include kissing, flirting, caressing, and oral sex. There is often plenty of girl-girl action still going on, and the combinations are fun to play out! Couples into softcore wife-swapping usually like the variety of new sexual partners, but prefer to save the intimacy of sex for each other.

FULL SWAP: Full swap has no real sub-groups and is quite straight forward ~ It is wife-swapping for fucking, plain and simple. It is completely hardcore, the ultimate in sexual adventure, and not for the possessive or jealous. This can also include women who like to have two or more men servicing them at once in a gang-bang (if you’ve never watched a woman do DP in person, you’re really missing something), and can certainly include lots of girl-girl action. Full swap couples make up about 25% of all swingers, and if you ever find yourself in a full-swap encounter, leave your inhibitions at the door, strap-in, and get ready for a ride that you will never forget. While we all know that there’s nothing like a new sex partner, the trade off is that another guy gets to fuck your wife. So do a head-check and find out if watching your wife screaming in ecstasy while she takes another man’s cock to the hilt is on your list of fantasies.

In personal ads you’ll find a great many people that say, “we’re soft swing but will full-swap with the right couple”. This is entirely normal, because swingers know that the night and its rules can change when the vibe changes… leaving your options open doesn’t mean you can’t change them back later, so remember to stay open-minded and enjoy yourself.