Secrets of a Sensual Massage.
Sexual enhancement goes beyond merely using a sex toy. Erotic massage and body play can be a wonderfully exciting way to make partner sex more sensual and loving, and can really spice up a relationship! Be clear on one thing: a back rub, while divine, is NOT a sensual massage. A back rub is powerful, short and effective at ridding your body of tension, aches and pains. Sensual massage is long, languorous and erotic, and involves a great deal of nudity and intimate touching. You give your mom a back rub. You give your lover a sensual massage.

If you've never given one of these wonderfully erotic massages, never fear. Our simple, step-by-step instructions will leave you feeling and acting like an experienced sensual masseuse or masseur.
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Secrets of a Sensual Massage.
Sexual enhancement goes beyond merely using a sex toy. Erotic massage and body play can be a wonderfully exciting way to make partner sex more sensual and loving, and can really spice up a relationship! Be clear on one thing: a back rub, while divine, is NOT a sensual massage. A back rub is powerful, short and effective at ridding your body of tension, aches and pains. Sensual massage is long, languorous and erotic, and involves a great deal of nudity and intimate touching. You give your mom a back rub. You give your lover a sensual massage.

If you've never given one of these wonderfully erotic massages, never fear. Our simple, step-by-step instructions will leave you feeling and acting like an experienced sensual masseuse or masseur.

Setting the Scene.
Creating a sensual environment is the beginning of truly great massage.  Lighting, sound, smell and temperature all go into setting the mood.  You do not want to be disturbed so turn off the phones and have a way to lock the door.  Illuminate the room with soft lighting or candles.  Exotic incense or scented candles add a nice touch. While it would be wonderful to have a commercial massage table, you can use a bed, table or floor - just make sure you have plenty of padding on any hard surface.  If you are going to use a bed, position your partner cross ways at an angle and make sure you have lots of washable towels, sheets and a good mattress pad so the mattress doesn't get stained.   Assemble oils, lubricants, erotic toys (feathers, vibrator, blindfold, etc.), clean sheets, blankets and pillows.  Make sure that the room is warm enough for the person lying naked. Check your fingernails for length to make sure that they won't be inflicting any wounds.  Last but not least is the right music.  Selections should be soothing, relaxing and have the ability to repeat.  You don't want to stop the massage to change the music.  Also keep glasses of drinking water handy for both you and your partner.   

Oils and Lube.
Lubrication is an absolute necessity for a good massage. There are lots of different kinds of massage oils and gels.  Also try Shunga Sweet Snow, which is a smooth edible powder that creates a unique sensation when dusted and massaged on the body.  Once again it will come down to personal preference as to the texture and fragrance you prefer. There are two considerations in using an oil-based formula for massage.  If you are using a condom at some point during the massage don't use anything with an oil base at the same time. Start using water based lubricant - oil weakens latex.  The second, oil based products can cause vaginal infections in women so again start using a water based Lubricant. Always warm the massage oil/gel before you start the application by warming it in the microwave or placing the bottle in a bowl of warm water.  Also apply the lubricant to your hands first and then rub them together before applying the lubricant to your partner.  Keep the massage oil/gel and lubricants in close proximity to the area where you are giving the massage and replenish often.   

The Massage.
Begin by lightly stroking your partner's body with the tips of your fingers. Start with the back, and then move to the shoulders, arms, buttocks, thighs and calves. Remember to use only light, teasing strokes. When you sense that your partner is relaxed (you might have to ask), you are ready to progress to massage. Pour about two tablespoons of massage oil into the palm of your hand, and rub your hands together lightly. When the oil is warm and evenly distributed, begin massaging (using hands or the massage glove) your partner's back with long, deep strokes.

Talk with your partner and find out which motions produces the most pleasurable sensations. Keep your hands in contact with your partner at all times, take your time with each rhythmic-yet-sensitive stroke, and proceed from long, gliding strokes to shorter, deeper strokes. Use your body weight rather than your arm strength for deep strokes; during gliding strokes, keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don't lean over them.

Once you have developed a rhythm that pleases both of you, move on to the shoulders and arms, and progress to the legs and feet, brushing the buttocks as you move up and down your partner's body.

Ask your partner to turn over. Begin massaging the chest, arms and hands. Pay special attention to your female partner's breasts: don't be too invasive at this stage, but don't ignore them. Lightly stroke the nipples and undersides. Glide down to the legs, brushing the genitals on your way down. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals. Tease your partner by brushing his or her inner thighs near the genitals, and very lightly touching the pubic region.

Allow the erotic energy to build until it seems like a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.

Genital Massage.
Look into your partner's eyes as you begin touching his or her genitals. Make sure the rapport you built at the beginning of the massage still exists; if it does not, try to re-establish it by slowing down and asking your partner a few questions about what he or she is experiencing. As you proceed with genital massage, remember to use your free hand to tease the rest of your partner's body.

Female Genital Massage.Start by gently rubbing the entire vulva, follow with clitoral stimulation, and finish with internal and clitoral stimulation -- don't forget the G-Spot! Remember that vaginal penetration usually doesn't feel good unless she is already in a fairly high state of arousal. If your partner is comfortable, feel free to use a dildo or vibrator to assist you in the massage.

Male Genital Massage.
Begin by applying some lubricant to the palm of your hands and rubbing it gently into the penis and testicles. Male genital massage is guided by one main principle: slow down and stop or change what you are doing just before ejaculation becomes inevitable. Ask your partner to let you know if he is about to ejaculate, or develop a signal – verbal cues, raising a hand, pulling away slightly, or even subtle body language cues can all work well. It's usually best to vary strokes at the beginning, and then concentrate on one or two kinds of strokes as the massage nears completion. By bringing your lover to the peak without allowing him to ejaculate, you prolong the massage and help your lover have a more intense orgasm.

Hold Each Other.
After the massaging is finished and you are both relaxed, remember to spend some time together before falling asleep or running out the door. You have both just shared an extremely intimate experience. Hold each other, talk to each other, and enjoy the intimacy as long as you can. The conclusion of any massage can be with orgasm, mutual stimulation or intercourse. Be positive about the experience, especially if it was your first time. Remember, practice makes perfect!

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